As a well-established companion, you wouldn’t think that there would be no advertising venue that would be considered ‘taboo’, but Backpage is continually heading in that direction, even in places where there aren’t many alternatives. This post comes from recently travelling to Bumfuck, USA where I received an email from one of the hobbyists from a major review board basically shocked that I had lowered myself to advertising on BP. He didn’t know I was ‘that kind of girl’. But when I advertise, I mention being reviewed, my tenure in the business, and link to my website with all of the information a man needs to make an informed decision. Had I offered a $50 BnG session, I could see his concern, because that would be completely out of character for me. But this is Bumfuck, USA. How else am I supposed to get the word out?
I attribute the current climate of BP being associated with ripoffs, prostitution arrests of both ladies and gents, and the trafficking of minors. Some guys don’t know what they’re gonna get. And for some, that’s the thrill. But for the avid hobbyists that looks down on BP providers, yet still happen to find me there, they need to understand that BP is still a major advertising venue. There are guys that want to indulge but are afraid. THAT’S the guy I post ads for. My job, in a luxury industry, is to let this man know that I’m more than just a safe choice, that you’ve made the right choice.
When you fellas are perusing BP with the intention of getting what you ask for, here are some things that you should look for in ads that should look out for.
1. 100% Independent!
We know we don’t have to prove our independence to you. All you ask is that the pimp not be in the room.
2. It’s me or it’s free!
Okay, let’s paint the scenario. You knock on the door, and instead of the girl in the hot pictures, you get another girl. Doable but not the girl in the the picture. You call her out on it, and she’s starts doing the “Maury baby daddy” on you, asking you to look at the similarities of her nose and her ass. She finally admits that it’s not her in the pics, so she invites you to say anyway. I wonder if there is anyone out there who got a free show that way….
3. No games!
You should not go into a situation where you are up-sold, and this is seemingly something good to see. But again, like the other things you see in ads, it’s not a guarantee.
4. No pimps!
The context in which I see this statement still baffles me. It’s either they’re letting you know they don’t have one, or they don’t want one to call. Either way, it’s something I’ve never worried about. Yes, in 6 years, I’ve received calls and emails from “managers” claiming to get me more business, and they can be a pain in the ass. But not so much I would need to mention it in my advertisements.
5. No Blacks allowed
Black men make up a very small percentage of clientele, especially in certain areas. Personally, I can count the number of Black men I’ve met in this endeavor on my fingers. Every last one of them have been respectful, and I would meet them all again. Some ladies say that it’s about preference, and I can get that. If a lady doesn’t want to meet you, you can’t make her. Some clients feel like they could get a disease from a girl who sees Black men. That’s crazy. You meet 5 Black guys of 300, and if a lady gets a disease, it’s from one of the Black guys? Yeah, that’s smart math. Even if all the Black men were disease-ridden, there would still be more White men with a disease. Another theory for the No Blacks is the fact that they have a pimp, and to minimalize the risk of interaction with another pimp, she sets boundaries around Black men.
I’ve met Black women with NBA policies for local Black men, but for very good reasons. The possibility of meeting a family member, or heaven forbid, someone from church would be stroke-inducing. But for the most part, women understand the fact that there are other things besides skin color that can unnerve a woman. As long as a man is clean, respectful, and passes screening, there should be no issues.
The reason why a lady should not have to use these tactics is because these are the BIGGEST non-factors in our industry. Independence can’t be proven. Fake or misleading pics are synonymous with ‘tricking’. Either a lady’s in this to do it right or she’s trying to get over. And who she meets is no one’s business but hers. What should matter is that you get you asked for, and that it’s something that in good conscience do again.